Trying to find the perfect partner seems impossible these days. What happens after you have found him, he invited you out couple of times, share texts here and there but he still does not seem to want to keep you in his life or to commit. Some times men just don’t see the amazing woman they have in front of them.
Here some tips shared by our editor’s on how to make him want you more and realize what he could be loosing if he does not act fast.
First you are the catch, you are an amazing woman not doubt but now you need to show him you are valuable.
1- Know your value, your worth. You have to show it in the way you talk, dress and act. You have to feel you are that woman and he has to prove to you that he is worth it enough for you, not the way around. It is not to be arrogant and to walk around thinking you are the only one in the world, it is to be feminine let him work for you, pursue you, impress you. Men love to make a woman happy and to feel they are the man.
2-Know what you want and let him know you are not in a rush. You can wait until you find the one that meet your expectations. Man are really good in testing waters and doing the hot and cold game, all he is doing since the beginning is checking what he can get away with. Is your job to keep the ball in your side and show him you are not in for the games.
3- Be a happy girl have your own world. ” He said i’ll give you the world, she said I have my own” Make him part of your life but do not make him your life. One of the biggest mistakes we make as woman is to start being needy, that is a no, no. When you have your own life, you are busy in your projects, work and with your friends he will feel more attracted to you, instead of you canceling plans to spend time with him all the time, or being available for him all the time. Make him see you are happy the way your life is and you don’t need him to be happy.
4- Dessert? For a reason desserts are saved for the end. Being sweet is good but remember he needs to win everything, if you are to easy he will get bored and move on to the next catch. Save the dessert give him portions of it little by little. The trick is to give him a little taste of what would be dating you and then leave him wanting more.
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